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If you’re going to get into any sort of BDSM or general kink (anything from a simple blindfold to full-on leather, whips, tailed-plugs spanking, chains, and huge gay dildos) or devices for healthy chastity, it’s ESSENTIAL that you, and whoever you play with, have a safe word.

It can be anything that’s short easy to remember.

EXAMPLES: Red, Pineapple, Washington, Red Sox, Apple.

You’re probably thinking, “Duh! Why don’t you just say STOP or NO?”  In fact, you’ll find articles where the writer is against the idea of anything other than regular words to communicate the submissive wants/needs.

Well…

DEFINITION: A safe word is a CLEAR signal for the Dominant or Top to alter, slow, or cease play.

In the essence of this definition, you can say Stop/No. There’s nothing wrong with it, and it’s a completely valid choice.

If you’re only playing with one person, …

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With any BDSM activity, a safe word is a MUST.

For those of you who are new to the game, a safe word is something the submissive can say to make all play instantly stop. It communicates that they are nearing or at their limits, or there is a problem that the Dominant needs to address.

There is no such thing as a BAD safe word. The only bad thing would be engaging in any BDSM game (light or otherwise) without one – and do not listen to those who say you “don’t need one.”

A GOOD safe word is something clear, easy to remember, and something you wouldn’t normally shout out in the middle of pillow play. 

SOME COMMON SAFE WORDS

Most candidates on the list are no-brainers…

Stop, No, Safe Word, Safe, and Mercy. Even Red and Yellow are understandable …

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You’re probably here because you’ve come across the term S&M and it freaks you out … but not enough to run away. There might even be a little curiosity budding under that sweet, vanilla exterior.

The good news …

This world isn’t as terrifying as some media has painted it (or as ridiculously unhealthy as 50 Shades has portrayed).  In fact, the world is SO LARGE, there’s something in there for everyone.

KEY TERMS AND CONCEPTS

In short, S&M stands for sadomasochism. But an answer like that is about as accurate as my grade ten math exam and as satisfying as the series finale of Sopranos.

The better and more inclusive term?

BDSM = Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism.

Heavy sounding words with an entire universe of confusion and judgment surrounding it. And it does sound very dark.

You probably think of something like …

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Yoni eggs are in use since the historic times to enhance sexual energy and overall health in women. These are semi-precious stones that are carved and polished in the shape of an egg. As these stones are inserted into the vaginal canal, these are called “Yoni Eggs”. “Yoni” is the Sanskrit word for vagina. Sometimes these are also called “Jade Eggs” as jade is one of the most popular stones for yoni eggs. Are you too aspiring to bond up with Yoni eggs? Well, that’s great and here is a brief guide on how to insert Yoni Eggs for your convenience.

Before you insert the stone, there are some preparatory steps. We will discuss that first and then we will move to the insertion part. You’ll also know which kegel balls are proper gifts to give in this guide.

Cleansing and purification

First, you will have to cleanse the stone …

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