The World of Sex and Music

Have you noticed that songs about sex have become one of the mainstream and trending topics in the world of music? Many artists pass this theme through their works because they know that this is what attracts people.

Does music excite people or help them normalize topics like this? A little bit of both. Also, many songs talk about making love, tenderness, and relationships, not just quick sex.

Heartaches, teenage love, female bodies, male masculinity, and quite the opposite are the stories that affect people. All people have to experience almost all of it at some point. In this text, we single out some of the strong performers who make music about sex.

Madonna

This famous artist wants to be liked by most and knows exactly how to do it. She provokes us with her provoking looks, movements on stage, and, …

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Male chastity is something many people don’t know anything about. There are misconceptions about it being pure torture for men. Well, just because you’re used to masturbating every single day doesn’t mean this will be too hard on you. There are many benefits of male chastity if you are a guy too, but let’s talk about what women get out of it.

It stops your man from wasting his time and libido masturbating

The first of many benefits is that your man won’t be able to masturbate anymore. That might seem like a cruel punishment, but there’s much more to come. 

Masturbating is only a waste of time and precious libido. Instead, he could be pleasing you in any way you want him to. Trust us when we say that masturbation will be the last thing on his mind. A stainless steel cage will keep him in check at all …

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While you need at least two people’s physical frames for something to be considered actual sex, it doesn’t end there.

What distinguishes good sex from bad sex is … well, everything else. It’s the context: where you are and how you feel, the lighting and the smell, whether you’re doing it up against the wall or in a plushy king-size bed.

One particular aspect of sex that goes under appreciated? Sound. As with cinema, when it comes to sex, the soundtrack can make all the difference. Putting on some music while you get it on can mask the sound for any people nearby, pump you up or relax you, and give you a tempo to move your bodies to.

The right music can turn some ordinary sex into an extraordinary and memorable experience, but not all music is a great fit. Regardless of what you typically listen to, some music …

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A friend of mine — let’s call him Ralph* — once told me about a musical experiment he was conducting with his girlfriend for a few months. “With” isn’t the right word, but if I said he was experimenting on her, you’d probably have a lot more questions. It’s not as bad as it sounds but it is pretty unusual. Basically, he played music during sex in the hopes that his girlfriend would eventually only think of sex whenever she heard one of the songs on his playlist. The idea comes from Russian scientist Ivan Pavlov’s conditioning experiment, in which he trained dogs to drool when they saw lab coats. The experiment was inhumane by all accounts, but it proved that you can have a learned behavioral response to an otherwise neutral stimulus.

Ralph’s experiment didn’t wind up working out, but he’s not the only person who enjoys listening to …

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When you get that feeling and need sexual healing, do you (a) go rogue and let the “shuffle” feature call the shots or (b) queue up your tried-and-true sex playlist?

If you’re in the former group, Godspeed; may the shuffle powers that be stay clear of Eric Clapton’s “Tears In Heaven.” If you’re part of the latter group, you’re in a safe space ― we’re sex playlist fans, too.

While sex playlists tend to get a bad rap (the last time one was in the news, it was Jared and Ivanka’s alleged 21-minute-long sex playlist), when they’re done right, they can be a downright game changer in the bedroom, said Ellis Miah, a DJ and producer who’s worked with RuPaul, Annie Lennox and Miley Cyrus.

“If you are a considerate lover that knows your partner’s taste in music, I think sex playlists are definitely a good idea,” he told HuffPost. …

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What Is Anal Chastity?

When we talk about chastity, it’s safe to assume most people think of medieval maidens and their locked genitals. Even if those restricting contraptions weren’t precisely what we imagine today, they didn’t offer a lot of sensation. Luckily, the world has since changed.

For better or worse, we can’t deny that there’s no longer forcible restrictions placed on young ladies. Okay, maybe not everywhere, but certainly in the more developed parts of the globe. People now willingly indulge in such restrictive scenarios and enjoy locking themselves in all sorts of chastity cages and devices.

So, besides locking their genitals in cock cages and penis rings, people who both love “hind door action” and Dom/Sub play, lock their asses with anal chastity sex toys. These gadgets are specifically made to restrict anal sex while offering some sort of pleasurable sensation. And just like your regular butt plugs, …

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For the first time, the chastity belt was mentioned in the legend of Semiramis. The Assyrian queen was worried that women living in the palace would seduce her beloved son, so Semiramis ordered to chain all the ladies into iron belts. In 1889, a belt of allegiance made of leather and iron was found by a treasure hunter in the city of Linz (Austria) in the grave of a young woman. The woman, as it turned out, was buried in the XVI century.

From the 18th century until the 30s of the 20th century, medicine faced such a general problem, like masturbation. Hundreds of references can be found in medical journals of the time, so in those years, chastity belts were used as a fight against self-satisfaction among girls and teenagers. Many patents were received by inventors who created various chastity belts and other devices to combat masturbation, before the …

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Originally, a woman’s middle age gagging belt was created by her husband to prevent her from becoming unfaithful to him if he was absent for a long time. Today, the cock cage is an erotic toy for couples and is very common in the BDSM scene. The belt is a power instrument and the owner of the key takes control of the sexual acts.

Purchase criteria for a Cock Cage

Cock Cage is available in different versions. They should be made of high quality materials such as stainless steel, plastic or leather because they have direct body contact. Make sure that the material does not cause any friction and that it feels pleasant on the skin. When selecting the material, make sure that it does not cause skin irritation or allergies. You can always ask for expert guidance in case you confused between metal cock cages vs plastic cock cages.…

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This cage will be perfect for lovers of SM solo or in pairs. It is of adjustable size so will go to most men. Or else, you can also make the choice to tighten it voluntarily for even more sensation.Although it takes some time to adapt, you will get used to it and will only feel the pleasure it gives you. And if you make the choice to wear it when leaving your home, have no fear of an annoying bulge under your clothes. In addition, its weight allows it since it weighs only 280 g. And you will have no trouble urinating with. Indeed, you do not need to remove it.

The best value for money: the Male penis cage

You and your mistress or master can only be satisfied with the brand. Once the lock is closed, you no longer have the means to free yourself especially if …

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If you’re going to get into any sort of BDSM or general kink (anything from a simple blindfold to full-on leather, whips, tailed-plugs spanking, chains, and huge gay dildos) or devices for healthy chastity, it’s ESSENTIAL that you, and whoever you play with, have a safe word.

It can be anything that’s short easy to remember.

EXAMPLES: Red, Pineapple, Washington, Red Sox, Apple.

You’re probably thinking, “Duh! Why don’t you just say STOP or NO?”  In fact, you’ll find articles where the writer is against the idea of anything other than regular words to communicate the submissive wants/needs.

Well…

DEFINITION: A safe word is a CLEAR signal for the Dominant or Top to alter, slow, or cease play.

In the essence of this definition, you can say Stop/No. There’s nothing wrong with it, and it’s a completely valid choice.

If you’re only playing with one person, …

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