What Is Anal Chastity?

When we talk about chastity, it’s safe to assume most people think of medieval maidens and their locked genitals. Even if those restricting contraptions weren’t precisely what we imagine today, they didn’t offer a lot of sensation. Luckily, the world has since changed.

For better or worse, we can’t deny that there’s no longer forcible restrictions placed on young ladies. Okay, maybe not everywhere, but certainly in the more developed parts of the globe. People now willingly indulge in such restrictive scenarios and enjoy locking themselves in all sorts of chastity cages and devices.

So, besides locking their genitals in cock cages and penis rings, people who both love “hind door action” and Dom/Sub play, lock their asses with anal chastity sex toys. These gadgets are specifically made to restrict anal sex while offering some sort of pleasurable sensation. And just like your regular butt plugs, …

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For the first time, the chastity belt was mentioned in the legend of Semiramis. The Assyrian queen was worried that women living in the palace would seduce her beloved son, so Semiramis ordered to chain all the ladies into iron belts. In 1889, a belt of allegiance made of leather and iron was found by a treasure hunter in the city of Linz (Austria) in the grave of a young woman. The woman, as it turned out, was buried in the XVI century.

From the 18th century until the 30s of the 20th century, medicine faced such a general problem, like masturbation. Hundreds of references can be found in medical journals of the time, so in those years, chastity belts were used as a fight against self-satisfaction among girls and teenagers. Many patents were received by inventors who created various chastity belts and other devices to combat masturbation, before the …

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Originally, a woman’s middle age gagging belt was created by her husband to prevent her from becoming unfaithful to him if he was absent for a long time. Today, the cock cage is an erotic toy for couples and is very common in the BDSM scene. The belt is a power instrument and the owner of the key takes control of the sexual acts.

Purchase criteria for a Cock Cage

Cock Cage is available in different versions. They should be made of high quality materials such as stainless steel, plastic or leather because they have direct body contact. Make sure that the material does not cause any friction and that it feels pleasant on the skin. When selecting the material, make sure that it does not cause skin irritation or allergies. You can always ask for expert guidance in case you confused between metal cock cages vs plastic cock cages.…

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This cage will be perfect for lovers of SM solo or in pairs. It is of adjustable size so will go to most men. Or else, you can also make the choice to tighten it voluntarily for even more sensation.Although it takes some time to adapt, you will get used to it and will only feel the pleasure it gives you. And if you make the choice to wear it when leaving your home, have no fear of an annoying bulge under your clothes. In addition, its weight allows it since it weighs only 280 g. And you will have no trouble urinating with. Indeed, you do not need to remove it.

The best value for money: the Male penis cage

You and your mistress or master can only be satisfied with the brand. Once the lock is closed, you no longer have the means to free yourself especially if …

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If you’re going to get into any sort of BDSM or general kink (anything from a simple blindfold to full-on leather, whips, tailed-plugs spanking, chains, and huge gay dildos) or devices for healthy chastity, it’s ESSENTIAL that you, and whoever you play with, have a safe word.

It can be anything that’s short easy to remember.

EXAMPLES: Red, Pineapple, Washington, Red Sox, Apple.

You’re probably thinking, “Duh! Why don’t you just say STOP or NO?”  In fact, you’ll find articles where the writer is against the idea of anything other than regular words to communicate the submissive wants/needs.

Well…

DEFINITION: A safe word is a CLEAR signal for the Dominant or Top to alter, slow, or cease play.

In the essence of this definition, you can say Stop/No. There’s nothing wrong with it, and it’s a completely valid choice.

If you’re only playing with …

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With any BDSM activity, a safe word is a MUST.

For those of you who are new to the game, a safe word is something the submissive can say to make all play instantly stop. It communicates that they are nearing or at their limits, or there is a problem that the Dominant needs to address.

There is no such thing as a BAD safe word. The only bad thing would be engaging in any BDSM game (light or otherwise) without one – and do not listen to those who say you “don’t need one.”

A GOOD safe word is something clear, easy to remember, and something you wouldn’t normally shout out in the middle of pillow play. 

SOME COMMON SAFE WORDS

Most candidates on the list are no-brainers…

Stop, No, Safe Word, Safe, and Mercy. Even Red and Yellow are understandable …

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You’re probably here because you’ve come across the term S&M and it freaks you out … but not enough to run away. There might even be a little curiosity budding under that sweet, vanilla exterior.

The good news …

This world isn’t as terrifying as some media has painted it (or as ridiculously unhealthy as 50 Shades has portrayed).  In fact, the world is SO LARGE, there’s something in there for everyone.

KEY TERMS AND CONCEPTS

In short, S&M stands for sadomasochism. But an answer like that is about as accurate as my grade ten math exam and as satisfying as the series finale of Sopranos.

The better and more inclusive term?

BDSM = Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism.

Heavy sounding words with an entire universe of confusion and judgment surrounding it. And it does sound very dark.

You probably think of something like …

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